Thursday 4 December 2014

# 23 - Opossum - Diversion - Contrary

23


Opossum

Diversion

Opossum......

Roll over !

Are you really dead? 

Or just playing Possum?

Was it something I said?


Contrary:

In the reversed position, Opossum may be warning you against getting caught in the high dram of your life s present scenario.

"Close your eyes and dramatize," may keep you from seeing the truth of a situation.

You may buy into melodrama in yourself or others.

You might as well play dead if you are justifying what you are doing with a tragic victim routine.

If this concept does not apply to your situation , take a look at the possibility that you may have recently been giving excuses for why you don't want to do something instead of telling the truth.

In fearing to hurt someone s feelings you may have trapped  yourself in a justification pattern:

"I m too sick, 
I'm too poor , 

I'm watching my weight, 

I'm too 
short,  
tall ,
mad 
sad 
busy, 
tired, 
etc.

"In having to defend yourself with excuses, you may have lost the point.

"You don't' have to defend your right to be!"

The exercise is in learning to politely say that something would not be appropriate for you at this time.

That's all!

You owe  no one an excuses.

Learn to imitate Opossum and play dead in the sense that the best strategy is no defence.

In assuming the viewpoint of no defence, you have chosen the right to be who and what you are with no games involved.

The proper use of diversion is to know when you do not need to use diversion at all.

You owe no one an excuse for how you feel or what  you choose to experience.

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